The modern dating landscape is complex: shifting gender dynamics, attachment styles, emotional intelligence, boundaries, healing trauma, texting nuances, and navigating dating apps with clarity.

Instagram is where this conversation has become mainstream — because dating advice is best delivered visually, in short bite-sized formats. Relationship coaches today aren’t just giving tips; they’re shaping how singles view connection, commitment and compatibility.

Below are the top dating and relationship coaches on Instagram — global list — rounded follower counts — each with 3–4 line descriptions.

1) Matthew Hussey — @thematthewhussey — ~2M followers

One of the biggest relationship voices globally. Matthew became famous for coaching women on attraction, confidence, boundaries and high-value dating. His content is focused on women who are tired of games and want clarity. Also author of “Get The Guy”.

2) Derrick Jaxn — @derrickjaxn — ~1.6M followers

Known for direct, emotional, and sensitive takes on men + relationships. His content leans into emotional maturity, integrity, and communication. His audience trusts him because he simplifies situations that look complex — especially on breakups and accountability.

3) Blaine Anderson — @datingbyblaine — ~700K followers

One of the most visible modern dating coaches for men. She helps men attract emotionally healthy partners rather than chasing superficial “pickup” tactics. Her content focuses on texting, first dates, profile optimization and masculine emotional intelligence.

4) Gracie Pleschourt — @datingwithgracie — ~500K followers

Gracie speaks directly to men who want girlfriend-quality relationships — not flings. She covers boundaries, healthy masculine identity, and how to attract women with respect. Her message is very clear: emotionally grounded men get better relationships.

5) Kimberly Moffit — @kimberlymoffit — ~340K followers

Canadian relationship therapist (PhD background) known for giving evidence-based advice. Her content is psychology-first, focused on behavior signals, attachment dynamics and self-worth. Very aligned with scientific communication.

6) Elsa Moreck — @elsamoreck — ~232K followers

Elsa positions herself strongly as the “strong men, strong relationships” coach. She challenges the idea that confidence = games. Her content pushes for self-respect, purpose, and masculine self-improvement before dating.

7) Erika Ettin — @alittlenudge — ~229K followers

One of the most known online dating consultants. She works heavily on profile optimization, bio improvements, photos, and messaging. Perfect follow if someone wants better results specifically on apps (Hinge, Tinder, Bumble etc.).

8) Oloni — @oloni — ~185K followers

Culture voice + dating coach. Known for candid conversations around sex, intimacy, consent and empowerment. Very strong audience trust because she’s honest about real dynamics, not sugar-coated versions.

9) Talia Koren — @dating.intentionally — ~192K followers

Focuses heavily on intentional dating — slowing down, filtering properly, and choosing partners consciously. Her content is especially relevant for women who keep picking emotionally unavailable men.

10) Karley Sciortino — @karleyslutever — ~193K followers

Writer, host and commentator on modern sexuality. She leans more cultural commentary than “tips,” making her relevant for deeper reflections on changing dating culture.

11) Jamie — @jamiedate — ~161K followers

Dating coach for men focused on emotional self-worth, embodiment, and confidence. His content talks honestly about shame, rejection and masculine insecurity — in a healthy way.

12) Tripp Kramer — @trippadvice — ~171K followers

One of the older, established dating coaches in the men’s space. Helps men develop conversation skills, confidence, and the ability to connect beyond surface level scripts.

13) Kamilla — @dominatedating — ~141K followers

Known for bold, polarizing takes. She coaches men to master masculine energy, assertiveness and selectivity. Popular for straight, unfiltered advice.

14) Chantal Heide — @canadasdatingcoach — ~159K followers

Experienced dating coach with a broad female audience. Talks about finding aligned partnerships, long-term compatibility, and shifting self-beliefs for healthier love.

15) Eunice — @artofdatingnyc — ~107K followers

Psych-backed coach helping people date smarter, read signals, and avoid hot-cold dynamics. NYC-centric communication style. Very direct and grounded.

16) Apollonia Ponti — @apollonia_ponti — ~99K followers

Relationship coach for ambitious men who want marriage-oriented relationships. Her content focuses on trust, emotional leadership and choosing commitment over chaos.

17) Crypto Kshitij Sehrawat — @kshitijsehrawat — ~283K followers

Indian voice with international reach. His positioning is built on improving self and status to attract better partners. Very relevant for Asia/APAC audiences where dating content is emerging fast.

18) Logan Ury — @loganury — 168K followers

Behavioral scientist & Director of Relationship Science at Hinge. Her content is backed by real platform data and actual dating app user behavior — extremely credible.

19) Sabrina Zohar — @sabrina.zohar — ~344K followers

Viral in 2024/2025 for saying “dating in 2025 should be easy if you pick right.” Her content emphasizes secure attachment, transparency, and realistic expectations.

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