Finally, a book that answers the questions no one dares to ask — with full Islamic evidence.

Most Muslim couples enter marriage with little to no guidance on one of its most important aspects. What Islam teaches about intimacy is rich, detailed, and deeply compassionate — yet it is rarely discussed openly. This eBook changes that.

Guidelines to Intimacy in Islam is a comprehensive, scholar-backed guide compiled by Ml. Mohammed Shoiab Ibn Ml. Ebrahim Adam, based on the authoritative work of Mufti Muhammad Ibn Adam Al-Kawthari. It brings together rulings from all four major madhabs, sayings of the pious predecessors, authentic Hadith, and Quranic guidance — all in a clear, readable format designed for modern Muslim couples.

Whether you are a newlywed preparing for your first night together, a married couple seeking to strengthen your bond the halal way, or simply a Muslim who wants to understand what Islam truly says on this topic — this ebook is for you.

🌙 What Makes This eBook Different?

Unlike general marriage advice books, this guide goes deep into Fiqh (Islamic jurisprudence) while remaining practical and accessible. It doesn't shy away from real questions. In fact, it opens with a direct message: Do not feel shy. The great scholars of Islam never shied away from educating the Ummah on these matters, and neither does this book.

Every ruling is backed by evidence. Every opinion is clearly attributed. You'll never be left wondering "but is this actually allowed?"

📚 What's Inside — Chapter by Chapter

✅ Intentions & Sexual Relations Discover how an act of intimacy between husband and wife can become an act of worship. The book outlines five powerful intentions that transform your private life into a source of spiritual reward — from protecting yourself against sin, to fulfilling your spouse's rights, to building the Ummah of Rasulullah ﷺ.

✅ Rights of Both Spouses A balanced, fair treatment of what Islam grants both husbands and wives. Includes important rulings on frequency, the wife's right to intimacy, and the serious consequences of either spouse denying the other without valid reason.

✅ Intimacy During Pregnancy, Breastfeeding & Menstruation Detailed masaail (Islamic legal rulings) with clear answers on what is permitted and what is not — including which parts of the body may be enjoyed during menstruation, the kaffarah (expiation) required for violations, and how to treat a pregnant wife with the care she deserves.

✅ Psychological & Physical Preparation — For Both Husband & Wife Islam pays attention to attraction within marriage. This section covers grooming, personal hygiene, beautification, keeping fit, seductive clothing, perfume, jewelry, and more — all from an Islamic lens. Separate, detailed guidance is provided for both men and women.

✅ Seduction & Foreplay — The Islamic Approach One of the most comprehensive sections in the book. Covers seductive language, the importance of foreplay, kissing, caressing, love bites, massaging, and more — with direct guidance from the Quran, Sunnah, and the opinions of our pious predecessors. Includes rulings on what is permitted between spouses in full.

✅ Contemporary Forms of Intimacy Honest Islamic answers to questions couples are actually asking today: sex toys, bondage, showering together, oral intimacy, phone intimacy between spouses, watching pornography, cross-dressing, and more — each addressed with clear Shari'ah rulings and scholarly reasoning.

✅ Sexual Positions — What Does Islam Say? A dedicated chapter addressing the man-on-top, rear-entry, side-by-side, standing, sitting, and woman-on-top positions — with evidence-based rulings and the views of classical scholars. Also covers fantasising and role-playing within marriage.

✅ Orgasm & Sexual Climax Islamic guidance on ensuring mutual satisfaction, delaying ejaculation, and the recommended dua at the moment of climax.

✅ After Play & Purification A thorough breakdown of what is required after intimacy: the difference between madhy and mani, when ghusl becomes obligatory, how to perform it correctly, the ruling on successive sessions, and what to do if semen exits after ghusl.

✅ Secrets of Sexual Relations What must remain private between a husband and wife — and in what limited circumstances it may be discussed. A vital chapter for the honour and trust of any marriage.

✅ Etiquettes of the First Night of MarriageA gentle, practical guide for newlyweds: from greeting with salaam and performing salaah together, to light-hearted conversation and being gentle — making sure the first night becomes a beautiful memory rather than an anxious one.

💬 Who Is This Ebook For?

• 💍 Newlyweds who want to start their marriage on firm Islamic ground
• 👫 Married couples who have questions they've never had answered properly
• 📖 Students of knowledge studying marriage-related fiqh
• 🕌 Anyone who wants to understand Islam's complete, balanced, and compassionate approach to marital intimacy

🌟 Why You Should Get This Today

Islam is a complete way of life. It doesn't leave couples alone in the bedroom without guidance. This ebook is your trusted, halal companion — the Islamic scholarship you need, presented in language you'll actually understand.

Hundreds of questions answered. All four madhabs consulted. No awkwardness, no vagueness — just clear, honest, Islamic guidance.

Your marriage deserves the best. And the best guidance comes from Allah and His Messenger ﷺ.

Format— High-Quality PDF

Pages— 123 Pages

Delivery— Instant Download

Language— English

Based on the book of the same name by Mufti Muhammad Ibn Adam Al-Kawthari. Compiled by Ml. Mohammed Shoiab Ibn Ml. Ebrahim Adam.